The View from My Kitchen Window
Sometimes, when looking out my kitchen window, I see grass
that needs to be cut, a dog to feed, a porch to sweep… in other words…
responsibilities. There are times, too,
when I look at life as a whole in that same way. It’s all drudgery and responsibilities. I focus on all the things that are not working
exactly as I planned.
Today is a beautiful almost-Fall day in Mississippi. After a few cooler days, the temperature is
back up to the low 80s, but there is a constant breeze and just enough clouds
to keep the sun’s heat at bay.
On days like this, I am ashamed of the times I see only the
bad. Everywhere I look today there is
something and something else and something more to make me thankful. I am truly an imperfect child of God who is blessed has absolutely no room to complain.
Cooking, for me, can go this way too. There are times that it is pure drudgery and
other times that I love every minute of cooking – particularly for my
family. I come from a long line of
cooks. When I think of childhood, I
think of gravel roads, wood burning stoves, the smell of wood as my Daddy
worked on one thing or another, and my Mom in the kitchen. I think of Granny Sis (my Mom’s Mom) and her
seven-layer chocolate fudge cake. I
remember Big Ole Mamaw (my Dad’s Mom) and a big pan of homemade biscuits. These
are the things that make me smile.
Will Nicholas (my 14-year-old) have these same fond memories
of eating at home with family? I really
don’t know. But he recently gave me a very good memory. One of Nic's favorite meals is
ham steak with red eye gravy, scalloped potatoes, and yeast rolls. One day this week, I made chicken salad for
supper which he doesn’t really like. So, I
had left-over ham steak and served him that with some left-over macaroni and
cheese plus sliced cucumber with a little cup of ranch dressing for dipping… such
a simple meal. And his simple response, “Mom,
you are awesome,” made my heart soar.
Today, when I look out my kitchen window, I see hope. A beautiful 30-foot tall gum tree blowing in
the wind, sunshine that seems to light each leaf individually, and wide open
spaces... all this gives my heart a reason to remember the good things. Lord, I pray, that I can see more of the good
in every single day, every single person, ever single situation, for You told me, “all things work to the good of
God’s chosen.” With that, there is no room for complaints.
Red Eye Gravy – Is more of a method than a recipe. Basically, once you cook the ham steak, use
some left-over black coffee to deglaze the pan.
Pour over steak. (Some people add
butter and water or beef stock; I find that totally unnecessary!)
Scalloped Potatoes
5 medium red potatoes4 tablespoons butter
4 tablespoons flour
2 cups milk
Salt and pepper
Preheat oven to 350°.
Wash potatoes well; peel and slice thin.
Melt butter in a saucepan over medium heat; stir in flour. Add milk and whisk well. Continue to cook until thick and
bubbly. Layer ½ potatoes in a 3-quart
glass baking dish separating potatoes. Season
to taste with salt and pepper and cover with ½ sauce. Repeat layers. Bake covered for 40 minutes. Uncover and make another 15 to 20 minutes or
until potatoes are tender.
Note: When I’m in a hurry (when am I NOT in a hurry?), I
boil the potatoes until they are just slightly soft, but not cooked through. Then I slice them with skins for this
recipe. It cuts the cooking time by
about 20 to 25 minutes.
Yeast Rolls
1 cup milk2 tablespoons butter
1 tablespoon sugar
¾ teaspoon salt
1 package active dry yeast
2 tablespoons water
1 egg, beaten
2 2/3 cups all-purpose flour
Melted Butter
Scald milk; stir in 2 tablespoons butter, sugar and salt until
butter is melted and sugar is fully dissolved.
Set aside to cool. Sprinkle yeast
over 2 tablespoons lukewarm water. When
milk mixture has cooled to lukewarm, stir into yeast mixture. Stir in egg.
Stir in 1 to 1½ cups flour then turn onto floured board. Knead in more flour using just enough to form
a dough that can be easily handled. Coat
a bowl with melted butter. Place dough
in bowl, then flip over and cover. Let
dough rise in a warm place until it has
doubled, about 1 hour. When doubled,
pinch 1-inch balls from dough.
Make a tight circle using your thumb and index finger. Force dough through the hole making a smooth
round ball. Place on greased cookie
sheet. Repeat until all dough is used; allow to
rise again until doubled (about 40 minutes).
Bake in a 425° oven about 20 minutes.
Remove from pan immediately.
Serve hot.